You know the girls who have their lives together—perfect hair, face, job, body. What do all these It Girls have in common? CONFIDENCE! Becoming an It Girl is 100% achievable for you and best of all, you can start right now! So if you’re ready to learn your worth, take care of yourself and give main character energy, then let’s go!
What Actually Makes Someone an It Girlie?
It Girlies all have the same characteristics in their mindsets that give them unshakable confidence. Having a strong sense of self gives these girls a secret advantage… They already have someone out there rooting for them to follow their wildest dreams. These girls know what they want and how to get it by being intentional with their moves and taking unapologetic action towards their goals.
Alongside their killer confidence, It Girlies are some of the kindest people out there. They know what they put out into the world comes back tenfold, so they spread kindness like confetti.
Not only do It Girls have amazing, strong personalities and mindsets, but they take care of their outer appearance just as much as their inner. They work towards their goals and look good doing it. Creating a signature style helps build confidence while showing the rest of the world you care about yourself.
Step 1: Build Your Confidence
Confidence is the core energy of the It Girlie lifestyle. True confidence comes when you trust yourself fully. It girls know what they want and know that they can have it. Building confidence is a skill that takes time to grow. Aim to be a little bit more confident each day and over time this will be your new attitude to life. Start with small actions you can track like creating a goal of looking people in the eyes when you speak to them. Speaking up in meetings. Taking yourself out somewhere solo.
Stop waiting for permission from others to go after what you really want in life. You only have one life, so you need to make the most of it starting right now. Become so proud of yourself and how far you have come.
Step 2: Create Your Signature Style
An It Girl always looks like herself, not a copy of someone else. Trends come and go, and the truth about most trends is they just don’t suit most of us. Spend time to come up with your signature style. Ask yourself what makes you feel the most confident and build your style around this. Research different styles and go into a store or order them online to play around and try on different options you may not usually wear. Look into what colours suit you best and how you spend your day-to-day life. Comfort and practicality should be considered in your signature style. Curating the perfect wardrobe that matches the energy of your best self takes time but is worth the investment.
Step 3: Prioritize Your Wellness
It Girlies glow differently because they take care of themselves from the inside out. You can’t become an It Girl living off junk food and four hours of sleep a night. Build simple, sustainable wellness habits that fit into your routine. Try to eat meals that nourish you, not just snack on sugary treats all day. Move your body and drink your water—not only does this help you achieve the body of your dreams, but it also keeps you fit and healthy. Create a simple but effective skincare routine you will actually stick to. It Girlies prioritize their mental wellness too. Meditate, journal, or have quiet moments to recharge during the day.
Step 4: Romanticize Your Life
Main character’s energy is the energy of all It Girls. This doesn’t mean becoming self-absorbed—just creating a life that you love. Simple things can turn mundane tasks into luxurious experiences. It’s the small things like playing music, lighting a candle, taking cute photos, or dressing up to do errands. Every time you romanticize your life, you start to show yourself that you are a priority in your own life. And the best part? The more often you do this, the more effortless it becomes.
Step 5: Chase Your Dreams
Waiting for your hopes and dreams to land on your doorstep is a thing of the past. You have everything within you already to achieve your biggest dreams and goals. Breaking your goals down into actionable steps turns them into an achievable plan. Get motivated and start working on these steps to start living the life you’ve been holding yourself back from.
You’re Already That Girl
You are already an It Girl! All you need to do is start showing up as her! Embrace these habits and watch your energy shift as you transform into your most confident you yet. This is your time to shine.